Do you find yourself alone at home on a typical night, eyes glued to the TV or the PC monitor? Have you forgotten the last time you discussed a book you read, a concert or show, sports or even politics with other people outside your home or office? If you do, then it’s time to go out, rejoin society, and get a life!
There are seven simple steps to an active social life. Pursuing intellectual or artistic interests outside the house is more fun if you get to share it with other people, and can lead to good conversation and other fun activities. Being socially active also opens up many opportunities for dating attractive and cool women. Immediately do the following:
Cancel your full cable TV or the paid internet-based video and TV service. Besides, they can be way too expensive. This goes a long way in inspiring you to interact with other human beings. If you’re a real TV fanatic, there are local café’s or nightspots that sponsor “TV nights”, where you could watch “Lost” with other people and afterwards have a good talk about it over drinks with the other viewers.
Play computer games at the net café’s where game geeks can converge and enjoy friendly or serious “Madden NFL” or “Doom 3” competitions as players or spectators.
Cancel your online shopping or allow your amazon.com, shopping.com and eBay user accounts to be inactive for a while. Abstain from doing all of your grocery and shopping online. The convenience that net shoppers enjoy can sometimes come at the expense of meeting other people. Take a friend with you to the mall for items like clothes or personal electronic items. Don’t be afraid to engage the shopkeepers, clerks and other shoppers – especially any pretty girl looking over the latest iPod at the local Apple shop – in friendly conversation. Finding out about your shop item and talking to people could open up opportunities for meeting and connecting with cute strangers. You can’t do much better than walking away with an email address or a cellphone number for further “product discussions” through mail, calls or SMS. You might even develop your own icebreaker or opening lines when shopping.
Avoid eating take out or deliveries too frequently. Exert effort to eat out with co-workers or friends, even at no frills and (conveniently) no-fuss diners. You can even start an informal dining club, organizing trips to authentic cuisine or ethnic restaurants. Group dining dates in Turkish or Korean restaurants present excellent opportunities for fun.
Get an activity partner or join a group. These are interests or hobbies that you can probably do weekly with a buddy or a small club. Local newspapers, news boards or community newsletters sometimes contain ads of persons looking for a running buddy – or an activity partner for a lot of other different hobbies like cross-stitching, dog training, riding, cycling. There are also community search or group interest websites where you can find people with whom you share a common interest. If you want, you can let your new buddy know you’re single and available and talk them into introducing you to prospective dates, or set up blind dates for you.
Scour your city or community’s social calendar for interesting plays, art exhibition, musicals, classical or pop concerts. Indulge your interest in the arts by seeing visiting artists or artwork exhibits. Once a particular art form strikes your fancy, it usually leads to a little more study in its background to understand its essence. These activities would increase your knowledge and equip you in conversations with “artsy” people.
Donate time and effort to community charity events or causes. These activities do not only enrich the community, but could let volunteers bond with other cause-minded individuals. There are always schoolhouses or playgrounds to build or fix, or soup kitchens or green area cleanup drives that you can give time to. Now, there are even singles volunteer networks where you can socialize and bond with other volunteers after the event.
Once you’ve gotten through the above activities, it would be a cinch to think up other cool activities to go out and mingle. There are local coed sports clubs or athletic teams, music bands, book clubs, wine or beer tasting clubs, the list goes on and on. Just pick a few that interests you most and mix them regularly to have some variety in your social life. You’ll find that you will enjoy being out there with other people so much that even getting a date won’t be much of a hassle anymore.
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